One of everything please

Reflections on day 75/90 days of Pleasure

I’ve been reflecting on how directional sex can be. Quite often there’s one thing on the menu and that’s genital orgasm. 

But what if instead of just having the entree you have the amuse bouche, the appetizer, ALL of the courses, dessert, and every little taste and treat you desire? That’s what Tantra feels like to me, savoring a multi-course meal, relishing in each flavor and experience. Pleasure without an agenda, anything can turn into an erotic experience given the right conditions and intention.

Years ago I read a book called Slow Sex by Nicole Daedone. I loved her framing of intercourse as a journey not a destination. I’m so interested in slowing the fuck down and taking my time. I love it when people want to slow down with me. When we slow down we can connect more fully to the depth of the experience.

I invite you my friends & pleasure curious followers to slow way down, move with intention, breathe deeply, invite your full body into the experience, be curious, and if you want to explore or go deeper, sign up for Pleasure Playground or reach out for 1:1 pleasure guidance.